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“Revealed: The Simple System ANYONE Can Use To Completely DESTROY The Worry Of What People Think Of Them And Develop Social Freedom Overnight” Breakthrough mind technology helps you to destroy the worry of what people think of you and start living life your way rather than being a shy, meek, social pansy who is too busy trying to impress everyone to be able to enjoy every day |
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Have you ever screwed up an important situation because you were worried about humiliating yourself in front of other people? Be honest with me here. I want to know… …have you ever been walking through the street or a crowded bar and told yourself “don’t do anything stupid like trip up now” and felt yourself worry about what could go wrong in public…? …have you ever said something in the company of other people and whilst they didn’t take the Mickey out of you for it you immediately felt yourself go red with embarrassment? …have you ever avoided parties because you were worried you might not impress people there enough? …have you ever tried using alcohol as “Dutch courage” to make yourself feel more confident when you are surrounded by other people? …have you ever been kept yourself quiet for fear of saying something that might sound stupid? …have you ever heard avoided arguing with someone because you were scared they might have a go at you? Have you ever had anything like that happen to you? You have right? And I bet you blamed it on the situation, rather than yourself, for you feeling uncomfortable. Am I right? If any of the above sounds familiar you are stuck in a social illusion that is turning you into a loser My name is Jay Chase. And I make no apologies if anything in this letter offends you. The truth is the only reason this may hurt a little is because you know it’s true. You know that in every day life you are too concerned with what other people think of you and it’s holding you back. The good news is it doesn’t need to hold you back. At all. The bad news is if you leave this web page without reading what I have to say then you’re going to be screwed up for life. You’ll always be trying to live life the way other people want you to, rather than the way you want to, and that my friend is a sure fire way to be unfulfilled when it’s your time to pass onto the next life. The time has come for you to change your life for the better. Forever. So I ask one thing of you. Take a few minutes to read this letter. You will never be the same again. This is the story of how I went from being petrified what people thought of me to being socially bulletproof…and how you can do the same In this short letter I want to tell you the fascinating story of how I went from being a social pansy, consistently trying to make others happy and impress them, to developing a “thick skin” that makes me bulletproof in social situations. These days no one can faze me. These days I’m in control of the way I feel, no one else. And it makes life so much easier now I don’t have to rely on what other people are thinking in order to feel good about myself. But it wasn’t always this way. In fact I used to be in a dark, dark place… At the age of 19 I was too scared to even go into a bank in case I made a fool out of myself in public In order for me to explain to you how exactly how I am going to help you I need to explain why I am the best person for the job. I need to show you that I understand where you are coming from and that I too used to worry about what people thought of me. I had my first ever panic attack aged just seven years old. That’s right, seven. I didn’t know what the hell was going on but I felt my chest get tight and I found it hard to breathe. I can remember this day so vividly even now almost twenty years later. My panic attack stemmed from the fact that I had embarrassed myself in class and thought that everyone was laughing at me and thought I was a stupid chump. I remember vowing that day, aged just seven, that I would never humiliate myself in public again. Throughout the rest of school I sat quiet in class never answering any questions or putting myself “out there” so that people could judge me. I figured if people didn’t even know I was there they wouldn’t be able to laugh at me. I always thought that this feeling of dread in public would disappear with age. Until one day, aged 19, I realized it never would. I had to pay a postal order into the bank in order to be able to withdraw money and get cash out to pay for dinner. However when I got to the banks front doors I saw a queue of people there. And a voice in my head started going nuts… “Wow that’s a lot of people…what happens if you trip up as you walk in…what happens if your voice goes high when you get to the counter…what happens if a stranger asks you a question and you can’t think of anything witty to say…” For ten whole minutes I tried to psyche myself up and walk into the bank. But unfortunately the voice in my head overpowered me and I went hungry that night in my college dorm. It was then, when I realized that my fear of what people thought of me stopped me from being able to eat, that I knew this horrible feeling wasn’t going to go away with age. The only way I was not worried what other people thought of me was when I was drunk. Which meant I spent four years tanked up on tequila When I realized that this worry was not going to go away I thought to myself I was stuck with the feeling for the rest of my life. That wasn’t a nice thought I can tell you. As a student at university I was getting asked to go out and party quite a bit. I didn’t want to be a complete social leper so I agreed to go along. But I felt so awkward in bars, or any public situation for that matter. I felt as though people were constantly judging me and waiting for me to do something stupid. In order to bypass this and give myself an instant confidence boost I would neck three shots of tequila as soon as I got into a bar. This numbed my senses and within ten minutes I was slightly tipsy and no longer worried about what people thought of me. Being drunk whenever I saw my friends meant they thought I was an outgoing, social rock star willing to talk to anyone and always the life and soul of the party. And I was. But it was a façade. Away from them, and with only my thoughts as company, I felt anxious consistently in public situations. This led me to my next realization. I knew it was not a long term fix I was using alcohol to feel more confident in public. And I was using it a lot. Don’t get me wrong I wasn’t an alcoholic. But any situations where I had to be sober in public I tended to avoid them. When I was wasted I could handle anything. When I was sober I was consistently trying to make sure I never did anything stupid so people couldn’t laugh at me or think bad of me. The thing is I knew that tequila was just a crutch. Rather than helping me be more confident it was holding me back. It was a short term fix for my confidence problems and it made me feel worse for it. But I had got myself into a situation now where I felt that it was alcohol that made me confident and that without it I’d never be strong. Just as I was bout to give up hope something crazy happened… Then one day my reality changed. Forever! I was at McDonalds with my good friend Shane. We were stood in the queue waiting to get served when Shane nudged me and said “Hotties, 2 o clock”. I looked to my left and sure enough there were two beautiful girls about our age. As soon as I saw them I felt myself get anxious. I didn’t want to give them any ammo so they could laugh at me or think I was a fool. So I told Shane to stop being a pervert and stop looking at them. But he didn’t. He looked over, smiled and winked at one of the young ladies. She laughed and started whispering to her friend. I felt myself go bright red and I was seething with anger at Shane. I had made sure I didn’t do anything stupid and this chump had done and made us both look fools. Now the girls were turning around and laughing at us and I wanted a hole to open up in the middle of the ground for me to fall into. The words “dying of embarrassment” had never been more apt. Just as I was about to turn and run out of the restaurant something crazy happened. The girls called us over. We had both seen the exact same thing happen…but in an entirely different way… We sat with girls for a few minutes and Shane was chatting to them. I just sat there with an embarrassed look on my face. A little while later the two girls got up and just as they were about to leave one of them gave Shane her number, and the other one said “Bring your quiet friend when you come to meet us. He’s cute”. They giggled and walked off, and I went bright red. Shane looked at me as calm as anything and said “Shall we get some grub then?”. I on the other hand was not so calm. I was flush with excitement and my heart was pounding. What the hell had just happened? You see at the same time as I had “seen” the two girls laughing at us two chumps and making fun of us Shane had “seen” the two of them flirtatiously giggling. We got our food, ate and went back to our room. Whilst Shane probably didn’t think anything of the incident, it was an everyday occurrence for him, I had just seen something that would change my life. Forever. That one moment led me on a crazy ass journey to figure out what the hell it was I had “seen” that day For days after the incident in McDonalds I ran what had happened over and over and over again in my head. How was it that Shane had seen one thing, and I had seen another, yet we were both looking at the exact same thing? I’m sure that this has happened to you in the past. When you are speaking to someone about a past event and you both have a different perception on what really went on. It was four days after what had happened that it hit me. And when it did hit me I was flawed. I was excited as to what I had found out and, just to make sure I wasn’t onto a losing situation, I decided to go out into the “field” and experiment with my newfound knowledge. I spent months going into restaurants, bars, coffee shops, shopping malls…to try and figure out why some people seemed to constantly worry about what others thought whilst others…well…didn’t give a sh*t This new found realization immediately gave me more confidence. It was like I had discovered a hidden social truth and that because I knew it I held some kind of power over those that didn’t, which was pretty much everyone else I encountered. So in order to investigate what I had discovered I went into bars, coffee shops, restaurants, shopping malls…anywhere where there were people interacting with each other, and I started to study people. Big time. I watched their movements, their conversations and the ways they reacted to one another. And as I did what I thought I had stumbled upon proved correct. The more I saw it “live” happening before me the more excited I got. I knew, I just knew that I had discovered something that would change my life and the life of all that found out about it very quickly. What I discovered was a social illusion that was holding myself and anyone else back who worried about what others thought of them So what did I see? What was it I had found out? Well it was something that happens every single day, but no one really notices it. It happens to YOU every day but up until now you were either not aware of it or you were “seeing” it in a different way. I call it The Social Illusion. The Social Illusion is a simple concept to get your head around. It is the concept that every single person see’s the world with different eyes. This is a fact that no one can dispute. Bear with me here. When people see the world their mind then filters what it is they are seeing and makes a decision on it. In other words it is your MIND that controls you NOT the environment. You may be thinking that you knew that already. But you’re wrong. All of a sudden I was the one in control – NOT everyone else When I realized that it was I who chose how to filter the world and what I see my entire life changed upside down. I chose the way I felt in situations rather than the environment dictating how I felt. Once I saw the social illusion for what it really was very soon I started to go out more and “expose” myself to situations which used to make me feel very anxious. I started to go into bars sober and speak to complete strangers. I’d make friendly banter with people in shops. I even started to teach thousands of people at a time about marketing. Upon doing this I began to develop a series of techniques and strategies that can turn ANYONE from being meek, shy and worried about what people think of them into a social powerhouse. Someone that everyone respects and wants to be like. I call them my Secret Social Weapons. This isn’t some lame a**ed self help program. This is how to be the social player everyone wishes they could be Forgive my French here but I’ve read a lot of self help and personal development books and I find the majority of them to be cheesy B.S. This is nothing of the sort. In fact I don’t even call this self help or personal development. I call this learning “Social Game”. This is learning how to be a Social Player that people love to be around and that everyone wants to be like. Let me prove this to you. Which of the following people would you like to be: 1) A shy, meek, unconfident person with low self esteem who doesn’t really enjoy life. Someone who is consistently anxious about trying to impress people and who is always worried if they’re doing the right or wrong thing by other people. Or 2) Someone who can walk into a room and people immediately know they’re there. They have a strong, confident presence about them that makes people take note. They’re not trying to impress anybody but they do anyway. Instead people are trying to impress them. Tell me. What is “cooler” in this day and age? Person one or person two? Which one would you prefer to be like? Unless you’re nuts it’s number two right? In that case this program is for you. I’ll help you see the social illusion for what it really is Over the past year I have devoted my entire time to creating the worlds first product on Social Game Mastery. It will enable anyone, and I do mean anyone, to see the world how it truly is and allow them to break free from the illusion that has been holding them back. You see every person I speak to about this book reacts in the same way. At first they say to themselves “I don’t care what people think of me”. But then I challenge them to do something outside of their comfort zone, like approach a stranger, and they freeze up. Why is this? It’s because no matter what they like to think they are stuck in a social illusion where OTHER PEOPLE and OUTSIDE EVENTS control them. Not the other way round. Over the past year I have dedicated myself to creating a complete program that will help you to destroy this illusion virtually overnight. This means that very quickly you will be able to be in social situations like bars, work, or even just walking down the street without other people controlling the way YOU feel about yourself. That sounds pretty good right? I haven’t stopped there… Once you are no longer under the illusion that other people control your feelings I show you how to DOMINATE situations anywhere you go with a set of Secret Social Weapons For more information visit http://www.yourwealthynewlife.com
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